Staying on task without support from your friends and family might sound impossible, but there are some easy, tried-and-true ways to do it. There's something called the fantasy realization theory that has proven to help people attain whatever they want. The gist is that you must fantasize about your goal on a regular basis such as think about all the awesome consequences of achieving it.
Then think about all the negative things you'll have to deal with along the way such as sacrificing time with friends, paying for expensive classes and stuffs. Often, people think about only either the really good stuff or the terrible stuff.
But by considering both, you make the fantasy more realistic, and it will seem more attainable. Not only that, but it also helps you plan exactly which steps you need to take to get there.
Surrounding yourself with people who have some connection to your dream is also sure to push you forward. For instance, if you want to get into the fashion industry, you should schedule lots of time with fashion designers or models. They may not know what you're trying to do, but being around them will keep your eyes on the prize. ;)
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aafaff amelia
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