Passively waiting for a hottie to make a move is simply not acceptable behavior for a fearless person like yourself. Sure, it can be a little intimidating to approach a dude, but it puts you in control of your dating destiny, and besides, guys really like it. "Men find it refreshing when a female asks them out," Says an author of The Dating Cure. "Beyond that, it's empowering for the woman. Some tips for taking this bold step.
Buy Him a Drink
If a guy catches your eye while you’re out with friends, send over a beer. Since it forces him to make the next move and say thank you, it’s a stealth way of letting him know you're interested.
Suggest a Super Guy-Friendly Outing
Try to gauge what the guy you've set your sights on is into. Here's how... :P As you're chatting him up, ask him what he did over the weekend. Then, casually suggest something similar such as whether he is going to hang out with friends or going for a movie for the following Friday.
Invite Him on a Group Date
If you can't quite bring yourself to suggest solo time together, try inviting him out with a bunch of your friends which will make you feel more at ease....
If You Lose Your Nerve...
Really can't bring yourself to invite a dude out? Then give him the green light to ask you. After flirting for a bit say something like, "Have you heard about this new movie? I've been dying to see it." It will give him the perfect opportunity to suggest you see it together and because you've hinted at what you want to do, it takes some of the planning pressure off him.
Perfect! hehe! try it.. you'll love it.. ;)
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